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My Son Has an Attitude Problem

Guy with GuitarQuestion: My 17-year-old son joined a band six months ago and I’ve noticed a change in his attitude, particularly towards girls. He makes jokes about sex and ‘sluts’ at school and has called his sister a tart. I don’t if know it’s bravado, the influence of his new friends or normal teen behaviour, but nothing I or his father says makes any difference.

Answer: [by Lucy Beresford] Adolescence is a time of huge experimentation, when teenagers start to forge their own identities and separate healthily from their parents. Some do this by ‘rejecting’ the values their parents represent. No matter what you say or do, your son is on a journey away from you. Trying to rein him in completely will only make him want to cast you off even more.

Adolescence is also about finding peer acceptance. What your son says about sex and to women may be what, deep down, he believes, or it may be what he believes he must say to remain accepted by the latest gang.

How do I know it is time to look for professional psychological psychotherapy?

Do I need TherapyQuestion: How do I know it is time to look for professional psychological psychotherapy? Do I need intervention of a physician or psychotherapist?
 
Answer: (Written by Martin Winkler)
 
Many people are still afraid to talk about psychological problems or difficulties in their relationship. But some of them might feel the need to talk to someone, who is an experienced professional. No online information or counselling could replace this personal consultation!
 
You should consider professional advice, if your personal problems are affecting your quality of life and social functions at work or at home for more than a month. If your problems are long-lasting people tend to adjust in a dysfunctional way, using food, alcohol, drugs or overworking to reduce frustration or severe psychological problems. This must cause severe problems on the long run.

सोच्दै छु, छुट्टिने वा पारपाचुके नै गर्ने !

Mrriage Problemम ४० बसन्त पार गर्नै लागेको मान्छे परें । मैले विवाह गरेको पनि झन्डै १७ वर्षपुग्न लागेछ । सुरु-सुरुका दिनबाहेक मैले उनलाई मनदेखि माया गर्न सकिनँ । हरेक घरायसी क्रियाकलापमा कुरा नमिल्ने त छँदैछ, कुनै पनि विषयमा कुरा मिल्दैन । हरेक प्रयास गर्दै सँगै बस्ने समय मिलायो, तुरुन्तै झगडा भइहाल्छ । हाम्रा दुई सन्तान पनि छन् । कठोर निर्णय लिन पनि अलि गाह्रो छ । आजभोलि सोच्दै छु, छुट्टिने वा पारपाचुके नै गर्ने । मेरा लागि अब उपयुक्त बाटो के होला ? सुझाव पाए आभारी हुने थिएँ । ~ कृष्णजङ MD, USA

मेरो छोरा मसंग नजिक हुनै मान्दैन !

Father and sonम ४५ वर्षो पुरुष हुँ , मेरो एकमात्र छोरा छ । म उसलाई एकदम माया गर्छु तर ऊ मसंग नजिक हुनै मान्दैन । म कति बहाना खोज्छु ऊ संग कुरा गर्नको लागि, तर म जति जति नजिकिन खोज्छु ऊ त्यति त्यति टाढिन्छ । मलाई ऊ किन मसंग भाग्छ भन्ने विषयले असाध्यै पिरोल्छ । मनमा अनेकौंथरि कुरा खेल्छन् र डर लाग्छ । यो अवस्थामा मैले के गर्दा राम्रो होला? ~ पुष्पलाल महर्जन, कलंकी, काठमाडौ ।
 
पुष्पलालजी, प्रश्नको लागि धन्यवाद । सामान्यतया, मानिसको जीवनमा सबैभन्दा प्यारो नै उसको सन्तान हुन्छ । मानिसले जे जति मिहिनेत गर्छ , सन्तानको भविष्य उज्वल होस् भन्ने सोचेर गर्छ । 

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